Posted on: Jul 19, 2016. | By: Brian


Fetishes in Men and Women are most Natural

“Sex” is no longer taboo and fetishes are one factor which accompanies most fantasies, be it a man or a woman. There are certain preferences which are not clarified with legally married couples, and this is where escort services play their part. You can say fetishes work out valid and comfortable with escorts and most men, or even women, are comfortable in doing so. There might be some degree of danger involved in playing out specific fetishes, which need to be considered with caution. A sexual fetish describes people, men and ladies, who are aroused by unusual fantasies or even parts of a body, or probably, a costume.

Originating of a Sexual Fetish

bdsm woman with collar and chain A sexual fetish can be due to many reasons, but more often than not, they are some way connected to childhood memories. Emotions like curiosity, fear, excitement and pleasure are all connected to different fetishes. Normally, most of us tend to suppress these feelings, but once married or sexually active, these tend to emerge and you have many individuals wanting to fulfill this in any which way. As mentioned earlier, it is embarrassing for most to confide in their wives, or husbands and are comfortable doing so with escorts or even fetish services. There is no harm in this, but you need to be careful in more than one way, like using of latex condoms or the other precautions available these days.

Some Types of Fetishes

The first Fetish we talk about here is BDSM, which stands for, Bondage, Discipline and Domination, Sadism and Masochism. Each individual into BDSM has a totally different take on this. This is an open word and can be used to express different activities connected to different fetishes. There are various reasons why people opt for BDSM.

Reasons why people opt for BDSM

  • Personal Exploration
  • Stress Relieve
  • Empowerment
  • Challenging
  • Arousing and exciting
  • Fetish compel
  • Trying to conquer personal struggles and more.

Besides this, there are fetishes like - Role Playing. This can include roles of a doctor and nurse, student and teacher and so on. There are no specific reasons why certain individuals can get that high with role playing, but if required, you can request the escort service to fulfill this as this tends to be harmless and probably, fun and exciting for many. If your partner is willing, you do not need to look for any fetish services.

Foot Worship

There are many men who love feet and anything connected to them, it might be stilettos, flip flops, or a good pair of legs, or even well polished feet. In other words, anything connected to feet is a turn-on for those with a fetish for feet. This, too, is a harmless fetish and can be catered to by the fetish services or the escort services opted for.

Besides this, there are a number of fetishes, but you need to be careful before you plan to get involved in any of these. It is difficult to cure a fetish as this is an ingrained emotion. You need not worry if you have some kind of a fetish. You need to only handle this in the right manner so that it does not hamper your relationship with your spouse. It is a good idea if you can opt for therapy if you feel you are too troubled with this.

When you look for the past the world of "classic sex", there's a whole other world of the fetishes. Fetishes are well defined as the obsession with particular act or the feeling which generates arousal. These come in numerous forms. Some are basics like fetishes about the feet or hands, whereas others usually involve intense role-playing. These are the most secretive types of fetishes. They include bondage, domination and nurturing by one person to the individual who has the fetish.

Bondage fetish

bondage two girls in rubber leatherBondage is one of the most active types of fetishes. Many couples enjoy the light bondage in their home during sex. This involves tying one or both hands and feet to a bedpost or blindfolding a person. The idea of slavery is that one person is in partial or total control of the other. There is a little amount of arousal with having all the control or having the lack of control. Some people can play both the submissive and dominant roles while others only experience arousal with one role or the other. Other people enjoy being fully tied-up, gagged and possibly even tortured. While the fetish world is most often portrayed as men being dominated by female mistresses, there are also women who enjoy this particular fetish.


Domination fetishes involve two roles and may incorporate other fetishes. Acts of bondage are considered power. However, role-playing may be done with teacher/student scenarios, parent/child scenarios or boss/employee scenarios. Usually during these sessions the "servant" will perform whatever "duties" are instructed to them. There is usually an "incentive" included such as spanking, gagging or other forms of light torture. The couple may perform fetish scenarios at home, but most reach out to fetish dungeons to have their arousal needs satisfied. Fetish domains can be found online, and their location is disclosed to the client when an appointment is confirmed. There is no sex involved when a person chooses to visit one of these facilities. The acts are strictly for arousal purposes. Some also specialize in certain types of mistresses - Asian, plus size, etc. - and offer unique styles of torture - electrical current, mummification, etc.

Nurturing fetishes

Nurturing fetishes are drastically different from bondage and domination fetishes. Usually, these are centralized around the through or idea of reconnecting with an estranged parent or lover. Some of these involve one person as a "horse" or other animal while the partner takes care for them. Another common nurturing fetish means one person acting as a parent to someone else who wears diapers, simulates breastfeeding and is taken care of.

Enjoying a type of fetish does not make a person "weird" or some "freak". If anything, it identifies those individuals that are comfortable enough with their sexuality and what turns them on to embrace a different kind of sexual stimulation.

Other Fetishes in Men and Women

Clothing fetishes

bent girl bondageThere are many men and woman that express their sexuality with a fixation on a specific type of clothing or garment. This is called a fetish or more specifically a clothing fetish. The most popular of these is a leather fetish. Men and women are so obsessed with the leather garment that it becomes a habitual stimulus to achieve sexual satisfaction. People who are obsessed with leather garments usually are incapable of achieving sexual arousal without them.

Leather fetishes

The prevalence of leather fetishes is ascribed to the various types of stimuli it offers. Some men and women like to dress in it, many like to look at their partner dressed in it and others like the smell of it. People even get aroused by looking at someone dressed in leather and then fantasizing about what it would feel like to wear it. In a large number of cases bondage is an integral part of a fetish for both men and women. Bondage is sexual foreplay or a sexual act by consenting adults. One of the partners is tied up by the other or even an escort girl and then stimulated in many different ways.

Some men and women, who have leather fetishes, involve escort girls to live out their fantasies. Couples might agree to involve an escort girl, but in most instances, one of the partners wants to hide his or her fetish from the other partner. There are agencies that provide escorts in most cities around the world. Some cities are better known for providing escorts that provide fetish related services. Escorts are well known for their willingness to indulge in their client’s fetishes. These escort agencies are easily found on the internet and the formalities such as booking and paying for the service is fairly quick and easy.

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